Molana Waheed Ud Din Khan
Resilience and patience are not act of cowards; this is one important act of life which creator himself has tough to his creations. There is an example of Arabic: “Alsmah Dbah” meaning resilience in acts and patience are always beneficial. During thousands of years man has experimented both kinds of behaviors. At last it was concluded that harsh behavior creates opposite results. On the contrary resilience creates such result which is beneficial for you. Two men were walking on railway station. One man was ahead and other was behind. Man behind had big box in his hand. While walking quickly his box hit feet of man walking ahead. He fell on platform. Man behind suddenly stopped and beg his pardon, man ahead heard him and got relaxed. He said no worries and both of them moved towards their destinations.
Second situation is that if such incident happens both of them get hyper, one will say are you blind, second will say you are ignorant and don’t know how to talk, etc. in such situation of both start talking like this matte will get more complicated and they will start fighting. Previously if they had dust on their body now they will have blood from their body. Previously if their clothes were torn now their bones will be broken. No matter it is matter of inside home or outside. No matter it is fight of one person of a nation or fight of both nations. Everywhere problems are solved with resilience and patience whereas adopting opposite behavior complicate situation. First way cools down fire where second one burns more.